Hi! I found your words of wisdom to kevinlost so inspiring that I decided to stalk you! Would you mind taking a look at my thread and giving me some direction?
I too am guilty of the "what's the matter" question. I haven't asked it since Dday, but he was always irritable with ME and I was always looking for validation that he wasn't that way BECAUSE of me. Ofcourse I never got what I was looking for so I finally discovered it was a cheeseless tunnel.
Anywhooo my thread is in infidelity under treading water.
