AnotherStander: Thanks for the comments....we're 4 months into seperation and most of the time I do very well with it, it seems as though in the last week or so my attitude has turned south and im trying my hardest to keep that from happening. I want to be positive, and I certainly want to continue standing for my marriage but seeing no steps at all in the last few weeks has made things especially tough on me.
I totally understand, but it's usually when things seem darkest that suddenly a ray of hope shines through. Denver's story is a great inspiration because he had taken to calling his W "STBXW" because he was so convinced it was over. He totally dropped the rope and then -boom- instant turnaround from his W. It's stories like his that keep me going, it just goes to show that miracles do happen!
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Your post is encouraging and although its nothing I haven't heard before its certainly something I needed to hear right now. Your right she has rewritten history and possibly still needs time to miss me, to miss us, simply to sort out whatever it is she's trying to sort out. Again, thanks for the positive post, its really what I needed today and i'll continue moving forward with a smile on my face.
Excellent, sometimes a PMA adjustment is all it takes to make things look totally different And there's nothing at all wrong with getting down now and then and coming here to talk about it. That's what we're here for, we can relate like no one else. We're all going through this together and thankfully when one of us is down a few others are up enough to lean on. We take turns leaning on each other
And there's nothing at all wrong with getting down now and then and coming here to talk about it. That's what we're here for, we can relate like no one else. We're all going through this together and thankfully when one of us is down a few others are up enough to lean on. We take turns leaning on each other 