Thank all, I still have hope just feeling a bit down this am. I know I still have to work on detaching, being stronger for myself and giving her the time and space and space she needs. Easier said than done:-) i keep going back to how good things are when it is just us and no worries about the kids and custody battle.

She wants to give her boys a safe place and i respect that. Trying to take small steps but sometimes i get hopes up and get carried away. No not going to give up just need to keep working toward goal of improving relationship. Just dating for a few years could be fun. Need to not put pressure on her for anything and let her lead.


M-45
W-44
2D - 11&13
2SS - 11&17
Married 10/10/10
Bomb 3/5/12
Moved 5 houses away 4/20/12
Back together 9/12
Seperated 6/13
Divorce Final 11/13/13