WHY WOULD I WANT TO LEAVE OR PUT ANYTHING INTO FIXING A MARRIAGE!!!!!
Why indeed, when you've got an enabler to do everything for you then why lift a finger yourself? When one spouse is doing everything, the other spouse has no incentive to do anything. If the enabler quits enabling, often the other spouse will step up to fill the void.
When one spouse is doing everything, the other spouse has no incentive to do anything. If the enabler quits enabling, often the other spouse will step up to fill the void.