AnotherStander, thanks again. I am starting to learn a lot about myself with all of this - in part how I am reacting when I don't feel in control of a sitch! Wonder if that makes me controlling?
I agree that moving out may do us both some good. I am obviously public enemy no1 in W eyes - she's just had another rant cos I tidied some paperwork and have apparently made it worse!
Sorry to hear your sitch has not improved. I sincerely hope ur W sees how strong u are. You certainly seem to be handling this better than me.
I just feel such a mixture of emotions that I can't see the wood for the trees. I think the space wld do me good in a way to help re focus.
