You have had problems through out most of the marriage.
What do you want in a wife ?
What do you want in a lover ?
What do you want in a best friend ?
Answer those questions.
Within them you will find your boundaries and you will find what is acceptable and unacceptable to you.
Those are your facts.
Find them.
Then live them. Through actions and conversation.
Do not settle for less.
Stop being afraid of losing a poor partner.
Start being confident in the life you want.
Start living that life.
If that is the life she wants she will want to be apart of it.
If not. You take your lessons and move on.
What worse can happen ?
Serious ?
She left you. She blamed you. She is involved in an inappropriate relationship with another man. She does not have the decency to follow through on her actions and file.
What worse can happen ?
Stop being afraid.
Each day is about you. Make this weekend about you as well.
Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul. unconditional love is awesome!
