I need to STOP asking:

What's wrong?
What are you thinking?
Are you mad at me?
Are you in a bad mood?

Gee, what will I say if I drop all these questions.

I see what you meant in your post to me, hadn't got your thread read untill today.

I do happen to think you guys ended up handling the argument pretty well.

Pam

"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned
so as to have the life that is waiting for us"