Great post, Busting. You sound so strong, I know that feels so good.

And yes, you will waffle a bit but don't let that get you down, just part of the process.

As far as friendship with your H, who knows what that R will look like in the future. But here's the for sure part, you can set the boundaries for it.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss