You were going to live this last 9 months anyway, might as well have been involved in working to better yourself.
And you have. Maybe you didn't save your marriage but became a better, stronger Ro.
It seems you've already written the final chapter to this in your mind. Let go of that and just roll with this for awhile. Be nice, keep the path home paved and all that but I don't think I'd do the loving phone call everyday. If he needs time away to figure things out, fine but you may or may not be waiting around.
WE can fix our stuff, we can't fix theirs.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
