Hello, so glad to hear you're doing better! My history here isn't long enough to remember the older stories, but it's always good to hear updates
Originally Posted By: goldeylox
I'm stuck as far as making progress in the M. The bottom line, I just don't love him.
Steven Covey (Seven Habits of Highly Effective People) used to hear this a lot in counseling and his response was always "well then start!" And then they would say "oh you don't understand, they do this and that and blah blah blah and I don't love them anymore" and he would again say "well then you need to start!" Many people think of love as something that just is "in the air" or just happens, but it's not a noun, it's a verb. It's something we do. It is a choice. We can choose to love people, or we can choose not to love them. Now perhaps you have good, legitimate reasons not to love your husband, but if not then you can choose to love him if you want to. Have you read the 5 Love Languages? It's a good way to jump-start those loving feelings again. Good luck!
