LA, 25 makes some good points. I think you are acknowledging what led you to do what you did and are trying to change that no matter what happens.

Good luck with the budgeting. I know that is a sensitive area and can lead to some heated exchanges. I also hope that your H will go through with the MC.


M44 H57
D17 (special needs)
M 18 yrs
Bomb 7/2/12
Still living together