I second Wendy's advice. Always, think of the viewpoint of the children. They will appreciate having you there, I'm sure, especially the younger ones.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim