Goin' off the rails on a crazy train...

[wishing, hoping]

Thanks AJM. My counselor said anger is a healthy emotion that tells you when something is wrong. He said it's okay to be angry but it's not always okay to act on it.

I try not to have expectations. I know it's all manipulation. My C has helped me recognize it.

I dont listen to H. I can't trust him. I listen to my L because he is not only a great lawyer, he is a good man. I trust my lawyer implicitly and that infuriates H. He even told the counselor that things were going well until the lawyer got involved. Lol!

I am not rushing through these negotiations. I have the ball in my court and H hates that. He is doing whatever is in his power to get it back, but it is not working. Others are starting to see through his "Mr. Nice Guy" facade. I am wondering what it will take to make him crack?

He tried to fight for 50/50 but I told him I wanted 65/35 in the school year and we can do more 50/50 in the summer. But I have to see if he holds up his end of the bargain first.