I just read all of your threads, well most of it anyway, that took a while:) It's ok I have lots of free time. Anyway, I thought I would pose an interesting question. I am in no way qualified to give advice especially in my situation, but I read a quote the other day that rang home with me.

"Immature love says: 'I love you because I need you.' Mature love says: 'I need you because I love you.'"

Which camp are you in?

Me - 32
Wife - 31
No kids
Married - 3
Together - 6
"I need space" - July 2012
Bomb/Presence of OM - August 2012
Separation - September 2012