Your goals sound pretty good. But going back and reading through your thread again, a few things jump out. You've gotten the ILYBINILWY talk already, and you've been told she wants space, and most recently you've been told she doesn't want to be touched. She's been pretty clear in what she wants, and it's not you for now. I know how much that hurts to hear because I'm in the middle of it in my own sitch. All that might turn her back at this point is time and space, so what you have to do is detach, GAL and give her what she's asking for.