Still together but trying to save this

[PeteWyo]

Also update on our situation, sorry, I forget. Wife is still staying out of the house. We text every day almost but it isn't about anything substantial. But I haven't talked to her in a long while. I want to call her but I also want to keep working on my anxiety. As I am working on that I feel so much better but I can't help but fell a bit abandoned. My IC tells me that this is a very real hung and not just in my head. She says people have a hard time understanding it if they have never felt it it experienced it. All the while, I feel like I have a handle on triggers and how to control it. I am getting a little bit of resentment reading a lot of the other posts on here, what ostensibly caused the breakdown in my marriage is not cause for this in my mind. It's as if I had some other well known physical ailment that was causing me stress and she is leaving me when I finally found a cure!