So, let's say I am a "cake eater". H or W, guess it doesn't matter. The situation would be as follows:
I live in the same house as significant other, SO,(or not so significant). The SO, does the shopping,most of the cooking (90%) or more, watches the kids when I (speaking generalized of course) want to go out with friends, when SO goes out i dont feel bad to leave also because D15 is more than capable of watxhing other 3 kids, SO puts gas in my car, does the maintenance of car and house, SO lives in another room outside of the MBR, I was able to take a 8 month break by moving 8 hours away to leave SO as a single parent just to be welcomed back with open arms. I take a couple college classes which are paid for, can chat it up when I want to but am able to just turn a cold shoulder when I want, ....... WHY WOULD I WANT TO LEAVE OR PUT ANYTHING INTO FIXING A MARRIAGE!!!!!
