Hi Harrier,

So there you are with emotional intimacy from your W, but craving physical intimacy, while I am enjoying the physical part but no emotional intimacy from my H. Otherwise, our sitches are the same ....spouses home, having fun with the family, showing committment....

I guess women find it easier to show their love through words and affection, while men are physical beings. So when I find myself craving for affection, I just give it myself and not even bring up the topic. I know its probably going to be like pulling teeth, or worse, to get my H to say ILY to me, if ever.

I do think that you should not talk about it, just flirt, be sensual and sexual and one day she might just fall into your arms!


Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18
Bomb: 6/26/10
EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ???
11/5/11 Retrouvaille
Finally piecing....
Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go