want / need to add this piece too, maybe more of a journaling piece --
W made a general statement about doing something "wrong," in the sense that she is "wrong." I didn't have the opportunity to ask her what she meant by that, if she wanted too. She was pretty closed off probably due to the nature of her bad mood (fight with OM). Granted it might be me mind reading, but I'm at least in the ballpark on that one.
It's pretty hard to see her in pain, especially since I'm a fixer. Should I extend the offer for her to talk if she wants to, before she leaves? Not necessarily before she actually leaves, but while she is gone / or anytime in the future?I realize the best way to "fix" her is to allow her to experience her pain. We all know that I, as well as my similar company here, have experienced more than our fair share. 8)
