Eric’s top 10 reason why not to have R discussions when you live in the house with a batchit crazy MLCer..
1 – They are crazy 2 – You are way too emotional cause chances are this is the first time you are dealing with someone who is crazy 3 – cause YOU STILL FEEL that something YOU say will snap her as* out of “it”. Sorry ain’t gonna happen. 4 – Cause the more you push her – the more she will push back 5 – Cause if you are trying to save a marriage you do that with actions NOT words 6 – Cause chances are your not getting sex, she is looking good, your horny and really pissed off- and when you are pissed off nothing positive can come out of your mouth. 7 – Talking to your W = stress for your W. Stress = higher probability of divorce. 8 – They are not only crazy but NOT rational. Why would you try and have a rational conversation with someone who is NOT rational. 9 - Your probably really pissed the F off, feeling like a doormat and so do you really think it would be a GOOD conversation. 10 – You still have expectations, which will not be met and piss you off even more.
I just went and printed two copies out of this. Out one in my purse, one in my quilt bag. (I always have one of those things near me.) I am going to read and re-read that everything I feel like talking to my X. Because we continue to live in the same house, tho divorced. And talking to him is a waste of my precious breath.
So thanks Eric.
Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32 D final 9/12 Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!
