Well right now there's no commitment at all but that's a given I guess. We were married in every sense of the word, except for that piece of paper. I don't think I would say this "outloud" because everyone is telling me to move on and forget about him especially due to his actions and behaviour over the past 5 weeks but we went through hell and back with our infertility and adoption. I would like to think we can work through this as well. But he seems so "blinded" by OW. Is that common behaviour?