I'm doing okay and physically better too. It must have been a 24 hour bug or something.
As far as the "in house" separation. Yes, she has her own bed in our youngest's room. So she has her own space. Otherwise we share the "common areas" of the house.
So yesterday, we talked on her way back from her weekend. Yes she did get a ticket, and she said it was the last trip time she was going to making the trip. By the trip, to OM's house. Not sure exactly what that means, but she was admittedly in a bad mood, but nice to myself and the kiddos when she got home. I didn't press her on anything about that. Kind of glad, because I'm pretty sure she was having some kind of texting or game playing with him despite their "spat." I ended up giving her more / kind space. Tonight she actually leaves for a work trip for the next few days.
I'm not sure how to perceive yesterday's events or anyting at this moment. I do know that Tonglen helps curb the confusion and pain.
