Looks like the countdown is on, right? Just a thought, if this ends up just being a fact finding conversation which you plan on using to decide what your next course of action will be, I guess if you decide to set boundaries later, you'll have to do it on the phone then right? It might be easier that way in the end. Listen to her in person and deliver your blow with a script in front of you on the phone. Lots of thinking to do this week mate.
Good luck with this,
Freshman Class of 2012
M-49 W-42 1D-10 T 10 YEARS M 9 YEARS EA/MLC 07/2010 Separation 28/05/2012 PA confirmed 31/07/12 W Asked for D 31/07/12 D on and off the table since then