If I told you that you had a one in a million chance to get your W back. To have a totally happy, great sex M with your W – would you take the odds? That answer is for you Sunny. I am not here to tell you that you should or should not stand for your W. That buddy is your call. Personally, I say F*ck odds. You may not see it now, but at the end of the day….ONLY YOU say when it is over! You really are in control.
I would have said yes a few months ago but I am starting to fall out of love with her - her cruelty and indifference are just getting to much to bear for me -- I can't understand why if she wants a divorce why we are working on the house -- DB says we can't ask about the relationship at all -- but why not -- if she wants to do all this work but wants to go out and hookup as well - whats the point -- I feel like I am just feeding into the insanity -- let them do what they want when they want, have no expectations - let them have no responsibility.
If someone decides there is no goodness in you they won't be able to see it. I'll take a BLT over a MLC anyday !!!
