Originally Posted By: AlkalineThoughts


I highly doubt she'll volunteer information about OM, so is this something that I should ask about?



You NEVER "ask" about an OM/OW. You only STATE ("I know all about you and ______,"), or you just assume it's going on, or you respond to HER if/when she asks "What will it take for me to return to the marriage?"

ASKING is supplication, which is weak and unattractive, plus she will only lie anyway.

Fruitless.


Starsky

M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

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