Sunny

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I work in the financial markets and I also work a tiny part time job in a music store

I work in finance as well.

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I am also an aspiring Christian Musician

The next Creed or Skillet? 

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Eric I see you been a member a long time can you tell me what brought you here and your story ??[quote]
The gory details can be found here:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...631#Post2157631
The first page has links to all of my other threads..

Keep in mind everybody’s sitch is different. Are there similarities? Yes but each and every one of us is unique in our own way. Take the advice that you think works for you.

[quote]I did but I can't seem to find where he is at in his journey now

Yeah I need to open up a new thread. In short, Life is good for me, my kids are happy, I live with my GF and I am grateful for the experience that I gained going thru this process.

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How to know what to do

This quote ^^^ says a lot dude. A lot about what stage people are in when they first arrive. You may not get what I am saying right now but I am gonna tell you that at the end of the day…YOU WILL NEED TO DO WHAT YOU THINK YOU NEED TO DO FOR YOU. Take responsibility for your own actions. Live them dude. Embrace that you will make mistakes. In the end, whatever happens will happen.

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I have to say that I see a lot of posts here and I have yet to see any type of information on "what are the odds" == what are the chances that someone will ever come out of a MLC and how many do - most posts I see are people that ended in divorce anyway - I am really going out of my mind !!!

If I told you that you had a one in a million chance to get your W back. To have a totally happy, great sex M with your W – would you take the odds? That answer is for you Sunny. I am not here to tell you that you should or should not stand for your W. That buddy is your call. Personally, I say F*ck odds. You may not see it now, but at the end of the day….ONLY YOU say when it is over! You really are in control.


"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter".
"Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!"
"Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans