I think if I can force myself to focus on making the changes and not so much on H or what he thinks or the M, I might be in better mental shape.
Absolutely. If you are making changes for your H or your M, how are they going to stick?
Originally Posted By: RegretfulLA
"Well, after 6 hours went by I figured you weren't going to." But I told him he could clean up after our dinner and he did so quite willingly. I told him thank you.
This is one of those areas where I read it and thought, this was an opportunity to have some fun. What you said sounded like a veiled attack honestly. I don't know how you said it, but given that you were angry the whole time, I think I can guess. Personally, I would have said something like "I'll let you make it up to me (wink wink)" and just smiled and went about my business.
