Hi, all of you #2

[ericmsant2]

AA

the more I listen to her, the more I grow skeptic

The "I love you" "I miss you", "I am yours" from her to me now sound hollow with no actual meaning

but like I said her words are just hollow

She is very intelligent and knows how to play the part

IF you feel this way^^^^ then why….

We have been intimate also

Wait…I think I know why. Because you wanted….

and she ended up with a lot of kiss marks in her body, and honestly it amazes me OM has not find out about it.

IMO, you wanted OM to find/see the marks.

I am not braggin about it

IMO, you ARE bragging about it. If you were not you would not have posted it. Yeah, yeah, you wanted to show me the stupid things..well look at how it turned out for you.

Yesterday we were intimate again, and she still shows the kiss marks, plus some new ones

I suspect the new ones are from OM.

but I am tempted to let OM know where the woman he trust has really spend her nights.

I wouldn’t. You would just be putting her right back on the pedestal that she is already on. You see, she gets whatever she wants. She get to F*ck you, and F*ck OM. Not a bad deal if ya ask me. The more you FIGHT for her and show her that SHE can literally control you albeit with sex, or a call or a text or some other form of manipulation, the longer she does not have to deal with the consequences of her ACTIONS.

I am very co-dependent on XW

Yep. Know what usually works for people that have dependencies – COLD TURKEY. Quit. I’m not saying give up on getting her back – nope – that is your call. I am saying that you need to start LIVING what you are preaching! You need to remind her that SHE not YOU..decided to start f*cking someone else and that YOU are not okay with that. You remind her NOT with words with actions.

YOU Remind HER (and YOU) that you do not plan to be second fiddle to anyone.

I would say we will not have any contact for another 2 weeks

2 weeks! Huh…so you are putting a timeline in place. If it were me (and you are not me) I would have nothing to do with her until she lives up to the boundary that I would have set, which is NO contact unless OM is OUT of the f*cking picture. Then again, that’s me.

For the most part it was XW looking for me after a while

Sorry dude….IMO, she wasn’t looking at you (at least not in the way you think she was)…she was looking to see if she could still keep you right where she wanted you.

I do miss my family and pray for them daily

Separate HER from your family. Reach out to your step kids, if you choose to. Do not alienate everyone because of HER.