Also, what I was wondering about with getting it in the open, is if historically it had a positive impact on DBing?

I understand the main goal is to improve ourselves, with the hope of saving our marriages. At some point we have engage our WAS, but for me I don't think that time is now. Not detached enough.


Me 37/W 32
S 5
D 4
ILYBNILWY 5/12
Sep 8/12
Starting to find myself 11/12 on