Essentially, this is what he did to me, he "dropped the rope" when I was WAS and now I am living my worst fear and nightmare. He WANTS me to move on, this is what he has told people. I don't know how much of it is true, there has been mixed messages from him since the start but now there is just silence and more and more time spent with OW and away from me and our daughter. Like you said I need to focus on making me a better person and a better mom. Maybe he will notice and come back, maybe he won't. If he does I would take him back with complete open arms but as someone said, Cadet I think, I have the gift of TIME right now to work through my issues and form a better relationship with myself and my daughter. He's an adult and has to go through this on his own and if it is truly what he wants then I can't stop him.
