Chatter, thanks for linking those topics. Very inspiring!
labug and Starsky, thanks for your input. I think you're both right, that this is more of a fact-finding mission and NOT the time for me making rash decisions... "Let me think about that" may very well end up being a mantra this weekend... And the best part is that's a HUGE 180 for me, as I always want to work things out IMMEDIATELY, something that I know drove W crazy, as she's much more of a "Think it out" type than I am.
I highly doubt she'll volunteer information about OM, so is this something that I should ask about?