Yes, it absolutely is possible! However, don't think of it as waiting. You are moving on. Moving on to a better you and being a better mom too. It doesn't mean you forget exactly. Just change your priorities. He is no longer your focus. You seem hung up on this idea of waiting. The point is that nothing happens immediately. Meaning D is not immediate so put the time to good use. Seriously. When you improve you and take the focus off him, he actually WILL notice.
