Thanks so much for the response. I can't keep waiting tho - I have to move on. I have to FORGET about him and not worry about him in order to survive, literally. I have to focus on myself and my daughter. Is that possible to do? Still waiting for the book but have a few articles from here about going dark and pursuit and distance. I stayed in my room last night and he came in and said good night. I'm not initiating any conversations. I did not do his laundry when he got home nor did I make him supper. He has made his decision and I have to move on. But I do love him very much and hope we can reconcile but I can't put my life on hold to wait and see. Is that the right attitude to have?
but have a few articles from here about going dark and pursuit and distance. I stayed in my room last night and he came in and said good night. I'm not initiating any conversations. I did not do his laundry when he got home nor did I make him supper. He has made his decision and I have to move on. But I do love him very much and hope we can reconcile but I can't put my life on hold to wait and see. Is that the right attitude to have?