Thanks Arsene. While I agree with you, the thing that I struggle with is the timing of it all. I'm supposed to be helping her pack on Friday, for at least a couple hours (as I told her I have plans on Friday, which I don't) and I feel that if I deliver this message right up front, the next hour or two of me helping her pack will horrific... But I don't want it to seem like a reaction to her statements...