I'm also a big fan of Retro. It is faith-based, but you do not need to be Catholic. The process has helped many couples find their way back. Perhaps some IC for you if you have not previously looked into it.
Me:44, WAW hx bi-polar H:48, hx of abuse S:22, S:19, D:16 Filed Oct 08, dismissed Filed again Jan 10, dismissed Now Piecing alter persona: SuperBoots