I'm on my way to a new school for 2 weeks so I can't leave a decent reply right now, but wanted to say thanks for sharing with me that personal moment in your life.
I've noticed a change in my W since we had the D talk. She slept on the couch that night and last night had my Daughter slept in our bed.
I'll post more later
Bill
Me 34 W 32 D 9 S 6 M: 9 years T: 12 Bomb: 02/11/12 EA/PA: 12/17/11 - ongoing Moved out: Oct 2012 Joint Filed for D: 2/11/13