Just wanted to stop by and give you a hug for all that you are going through. (((((((((((Zoo)))))))))))
Parents can be so tough without realizing it.
It sounds like you are holding your own though. Continue to avoid getting yourself in the middle of them as much as possible and force THEM to deal with each other.
I hope you have a good weekend.
Good for you, you seem to have a great understanding of what goes on between your mom and dad!