We have been married for 4 years, but together for 14 prior to that. About 18 months ago she had an emotional affair with a friend that we've known. The friend is now in another relationship, but my wife feels that she's "in love" with this person. She's now decided that she wants a separtion (not a legal one) and probably a divorce in the future. I'm in agony. She has rented a new apartment and will be taking two of our dogs with her. She also has a new "friend" who appears to be "on the hunt" for special time with my wife. It's very messed up. She feels she must tell all of her friends our issues and these people seem to thrive on the issues we're having. I know she's in a MLC, but how do I approach her to see that we can work this out if she'd just stop and think about what she's doing. I also beleive her therapist is not really helping the situation. My wife has a tendenciy to listen to everyones opinions and not make logiical decisions.
I've asked her to attend one of Michele's workshops, but she has yet to respond to that request. She's thinking about it, but I doubt that she'll come around. Any suggestions? Thanks.
M-49 W-47 M - 09/2008 T- 09/1994 No Children 4 dogs/2 cats EA 11/2010 Sep 09/2012 (tried in 05/2012 and W came back to work on us) As of now does not want to work on anything but herself...
