I'm with you on this. As you said, you've got two totally different approaches to consider and there is good to be said about either however, it feels to me that by putting it in your W's court first, your statement might end being seen as merely a reaction to what ever she says. If you take control and bring it up when you are ready, 1st you won't have to adjust to any curve balls which might unexpectedly be coming from her, secondly, you statement ends up being a thought out statement, not a reaction to hers.
Take care mate, and have a good time out tonight!
Freshman Class of 2012
M-49 W-42 1D-10 T 10 YEARS M 9 YEARS EA/MLC 07/2010 Separation 28/05/2012 PA confirmed 31/07/12 W Asked for D 31/07/12 D on and off the table since then
Thanks Arsene. While I agree with you, the thing that I struggle with is the timing of it all. I'm supposed to be helping her pack on Friday, for at least a couple hours (as I told her I have plans on Friday, which I don't) and I feel that if I deliver this message right up front, the next hour or two of me helping her pack will horrific... But I don't want it to seem like a reaction to her statements...
