She also mentioned about what wld happen in the future re dating etc which made me think that she already has someone waiting in the wings because I am giving her space yet she is set on moving out. She dissappears all day without letting me know where she is. I don't ask anymore as I don't want it to be seen as pressure/snooping. She does not volunteer it either.
I thought you mentioned in your other post you guys made a deal not to see other people while she remove herself from home?
If so remind her that, and set your boundaries. I know we can't make our WAS to stop the A, but you can have a choice to stay or remove yourself from the sitch JMHO. In my stitch, I know there is an OM and at least I only know an EA. but I made it clear to my W if she continue to entertain contact w OM, I will remove myself from the sitch.
Your W is also not receptive to things you are reading among other things so you need to back off doing that.
You need to regroup and refocus back to you and the kids.
Read my sitch, some of the things you were doing I was doing two weeks ago.
Take care, Newman
me40; W43 M18; T~20 D18; S13 & S3 bomb 5/9/11 EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM
Separated 4/1/14
"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.
