You have been through so much. Dealing with your own Sit as well as the stability of your family.
I'm thinking about you Zoo; whats healthy for you, family or not?
What a responsibiltiy you are carrying around! I truely hope that she seeks true help for her issues. They definately beyond her ability to solve. Tough love comes to my mind.
Zoo I can only offer up my thougths and prayers! Keep up the awsome work. My hat goes off to you!!