I seem to possibly reaching for the acceptance point of the 5 stages of grief, because for the 1st time in the 3years, my mind is not swimming with thoughts on joe and why this all happened and how and what can i do to repair our marriage and family.

As long as my son is enjoying youthful life and seems adjusted well emotionally, then i can continue positive steps forward.

I will not contact her. She will need to contact me to see our son. I have tried too hard to attempt to get her to learn to act like a mother.

What a shameful existence and poor example she lives for.

When she 1st got back on touch, after not talking to, or visiting her own son, she agreed that parenting counseling sounded like a good idea. I will hold her to that commitment before she can have unsupervised visits with him.

Ed


Me, 55 W, 36
T, 10 yrs
S-9
M, 8 yrs
1st D-Day, 9-27-2009, With 1st bf, ea/pa
2nd D-Day, 12-5-2009, With her best friends bf, ea/pa
W, AA relapse early 2009-Current
W moved out 2-16-2012
New OM 5-2012