I will check out hopefullya.

I have my girls this weekend so I am so much more together. By mid week next week when he starts emailing about exchange I can feel my serenity slipping.

Regarding our bank account it's someone easier logistically that we haven't gotten our own acct but it's wearing on my mentally. I just feel like it's me holding on and my h just doing what is easier for him not cause it links us.

Him using my nickname is just evidence that he takes no responsibility for his part in this. Generally when you are inflicting pain on someone you don't call them "baby". I think using a nick name is also part of his "no more mr nice guy" disease where he can't have any one mad at him or dislike him. He has to leave his wife and family and still qualify for father of the year.


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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13