I am giving her the space and we discussed still living together while back. She says it wld not work and gave me the "I need to do this for me, find myself" etc etc.
She also mentioned about what wld happen in the future re dating etc which made me think that she already has someone waiting in the wings because I am giving her space yet she is set on moving out. She dissappears all day without letting me know where she is. I don't ask anymore as I don't want it to be seen as pressure/snooping. She does not volunteer it either.
Our S was up at 3.30 am. I got up with him and took him downstairs (he didn't go back to sleep). She had a lie in got up and then said she is seeing a property this morning but won't be back all day. That's pretty much all she said and then left.
It is like she is getting angrier the more 180s I do and becomes more distant yet says nothing. Is this normal? I don't want to go down cheeseless tunnels if there is no reaction. But shld I also stop if it is a bad reaction? At least she must be noticing! She did mention a while back that she had seen changes but it made her angry that I cld not have done it sooner and that I have adapted so easily! Do I keep going in the hope that the anger will pass?
