Hi Eyesopen, I can only imagine how you are feeling. I feel bad to read your latest post. No wonder your hands are shaking. I have no advice re sitch as I haven't experienced OP in my M. But what I would say is: Pause before you react to what you uncovered yesterday Think about what you say because you can't take it back I know you want to do something, anything But finding her there again changes little, you confirmed your suspicion that's all Now you need to develop a strategy. I doubt she'll react well to finding out, you chkd up on her And she won't hear any of your words after working that out.
I'm sure a vet will be along shortly to help. Just wanted to let you know, you're not alone Tumbling
ME41 H39 T12 M9 Ilybinilwy 10/2010 H moves out 11/2010 H moves in 09/2011 out 11/2011 Try to fix it alone, give up 07/2012 Tumbling to file 02/01/2013 :-) "Strong on the inside, soft on the outside"