Breakdown, I'm truly floored by how well you handled this turn of events... I only hope to get to that place someday, to be so zen and calm about big things... right now I can't even sit through a soccer game when my H is dismissive...

January is still a very long ways off. I hope she changes her mind, but this just shows she's still got some ambivalence, which is unfortunate. Hang in there.


Me54, H53
M 23, T 25
S20, S18
BD: April 2024
Moved out: August 2024

Love means not giving up on someone even if they've given up on you.

"Being right is the booby prize of life." - Susan Page