Thanks afa. What does IC stand for? I'm still confused. About asking him to move out, or more so when I should ask him to move out. Not sure if I should ask him before he goes away for work or wait until he gets back. Either way, he's gone for a week, away from OW and away from me and D so not sure if telling him before he goes away would accomplish anything altho it might make him think more (and be able to think more clearly since he's away from OW) but whether or not he does do that I have no idea because I don't have a clue what's going on in his head.
