So I got home from the museam and grocery shopping with the kids. We had a great time. I have to be the most blessed person in the world because of them alone.
So when we got home, about 7:30 pm, the kids and I unloaded the groceries and brought them into the house. I was unloading the bag and the W was making small talk. I politely answered but tried hard not to start any conversations. I was very upbeat because of the great time I had with the kids. I continued to talk to the kids while I put away the groceries. She kinda stood around so I asked if she would put hot dogs on for the kids. She almost had this attitude like "huh, you want me to do something?" I didn't say anything, just continued to put away groceries and clean out the refrigerator to make room. While unloading, I asked the kids which day of the week they wanted to pick what's for dinner. Every person gets a day to pick. As I was writing what the kids wanted on their day, the W made a snide comment as if she were offended. It was something to the effect of, (paraphrasing of course) "are you making the dinner because you think I'm not here, or what?" I stopped what I was doing and told her that I was planning to make dinner because one, I like making dinners for and with the kids, and second, "you" are gone every evening for school/internship.
Throughout the next few minutes, the conversation between us kind of deminished. Then she said something that kind of upset me. She said " well, I had planned on spending time with the kids today but,.... Well anyway, since I had thought I would spend time with the kids today, (female friend) and I made plans and she is gonna pick me up in a little while. (I will give you a run down of the days events in a minute). I told her "oh, well I had plans as well, but no worries. I would rather stay here with the kids. So no problem" then she started in " see, our communication [censored] and blah blah blah" as if just to blame me. I said its two ways and I agreed. Then I made a comment like, "well, I was trying to work on that" and left it at that!! Then she went and got ready and left. Didn't really say much as she was leaving, just sat on the couch cuddlin with D4 and boys watching tv.
Now about the day, my day started at about 5 . Got up, made coffee and watched the news. I had planned a run the night before but left my running shoes at work. So about 7 am I rode my motorcycle into work, and ran there. I did 4 miles then went to the gym. While at work, I also paid a few bills, and finished some stuff I had waiting for me at work. I returned home at about 11:45, and W and D15 were heading out the door . D15 had a band competition today. As W was headed back from dropping D off, she said D had took the wrong uniform and she couldn't run home and turn right around to take her the right one. She asked if I could. I said no problem, and ran it to her.as I was leaving the school W texted that she was leaving the house for a hair appointment. She said she was leaving D4 with S11 and S 10. I was only about 15 mins away so I said OK. I had mentioned earlier in the day about my plans to take kids to the museum and grocery shopping without any complaint from her. I told her I know she needed to study for school and she agreed. Then she throws that crap back at me as if I stole the kids away!!!!!
