I completely agree with you. I appreciate the validation and sharing of thoughts. Sometimes I wonder if Im half whacked in the head when I come to these big moments where all those pieces come together.
I guess what's kind of odd is that I didn't realize how much healing and growing I was actually doing, as I went through the pain of him leaving me and then the divorce.
At one time I was angry and felt petty....but I think it was more about how he was treating me more than anything. It was not enough No Contact and feeling like a fresh wound constantly being poked.
