"Its like she is desperate to get away and becoming obsessed with it. Its almost impossible to ignore as everytime I go on computer or ipad there is a property left open on it. "
Give her as much space as you can right now. I believe keeping the WAS in the house is a better option for R. Tell her you would prefer if she stayed, but that if she chooses to leave you understand. Then let her go. Concentrate on caring for yourself. Post often.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
